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Old September 28th, 2009, 02:18 PM
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I am very sad, I was expenting twins (brianna & brian) they were 20 weeks and I was using a surrogate and last thursday something happen and after a while I was in the hospital with my babies. They were just perfect, but God decided to take them. I am not sure if I can live with this.

A week before this we went with the doctor and everything was okay.

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Old September 28th, 2009, 02:23 PM
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Awwww hunny im so so sorry for your loss of you beautiful Angels
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Old September 28th, 2009, 02:29 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss it is such a shock when everything is going along okayWe are amazed with the process of birth & a state of disbelief when that process ends tragically.You've picked out two lovely names for your babiesI found councelling helped me,still does.These forums were helpful as well,if you don't feel up to posting ,just reading can help,hugs
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that they are with god and they are now his angels, it doesn't make the hurt go away I know
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful babies. May the rest in peace. Be kind to yourself and grieve as much as you need to for your little angels.
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just wanted to give you a hug and to let you know that i am thinking of you xxx

R.I.P Brianna & Brian, your mummy loves you very much xxx
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I'm so sorry for your loss, you've found a great group to help through this tough time. Sending kind thoughts and prayers your way.
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Old November 19th, 2009, 04:54 PM
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Sweetheart,

I know exactly how you feel. I lost my twins in May, 1st had down syndrome and heart problems and the 2nd was still born at 20 weeks. I feel your pain. Please know you are not alone. It will never leave you but it helps to take one day at a time and to not be hard on yourself. It broke my heart because it was an ivf pregnancy and had taken us so many years to conceive. Your in my thoughts and in my prayers xx
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