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Old November 7th, 2009, 03:17 PM
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Hello my lovelies!!XXX
Sorry been AWOL for couple days, and geez did I have some reading to catch up on all the goss here! That'l learn me

Coco IKWYM about not wanting to socialise much, I hybernated every TWW during IUI, couldn't be bothered with anyone, just wanted to be on my own (with you gals of course). So don't feel bad that you feel that way, it's normal, for us sort! X
Oh and as for stickn ya bum in the air??? LMAO, we have all done it....
Hope you used DH pillow and not yours!!

Ferrals sending all of my lucky vibes your way, you have worked so hard this month I'm sure it will pay off X
Wldn't stress if you get AF today now, cuz tomorrow will still be classed as day1 of your cycle, but I completely understand how nervouse excited and hesitant you are feeling.

I actually only get this month to TTC naturally, I have to go on the PILL as soon as I get my next AF to put me in sync with the days the Scientist will be here for egg harvest and stuff.
I have to start my first FSH injections on the 25th Jan (my 1st wedding aniv!!)
I'm going through REPROMED in Mildura, they come down from Adelaide every 2mnths on certain days, so everyone has to be on the same cycle days.
We can go to Adelaide on my own cycle days, but my DH will be doing Grape Harvest Jan-June.
Sounds weird going on the pill when we are TTC, but have to get the days exact.

TwinSis STAY AWAY FROM THE STICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!
As a good friend told me just a little while ago....ferrals....put the stick in a container of water, then put the container in the freezer!!!!
I know it is so easy for me to say ATM and I'm sure you will remind me of this in the near future!! What it is, it is, and no matter what the evil stick tells you, it will only make you stress!! It's evil I tell you!!!
Just kidd'n, you'd betta let us know asap if you do!!!!

SPF I hope that you are pleasantly suprised that you have AF, surely there can't be anything else "UP There" after all the bleeding you had at the start, then not to mention having D+C??? Please be AF XXXX

Emmy good luck with the lap, gee not long to go X

Matthew'sMum how are you going babe? Has AF arrived? Hope you are doing ok luv X On with the Clomid Hey? Stronger this month?? Do you get a BT done on day 21 to see if you have O'd??

Craftymummy you had better not be here reading..........you have homework to do!!!!!

Bookworm hope you enjoyed your feed of chocolate, yummm! Think I need some sweetening up to!!

Eliselouise hope you enjoy time with DB(boyfriend.......girls) tonight X

Cherished PumpkinZ Hi girls hope you are well X

Snugglebug my darling beutiful, did you go buy some FR Sticks?? Have you caved??? I bet you have already, ammusing yourself with the thaught are we???!!!!
I'm ammusing myself I know that much!!!..............You caved didn't you!!!

No other news with me girlies, going to a friend's 30th Bday tonight, 35degrese here ATM, so gunna go fake tan myself, paint my toenails and get stuck into an alcoholic beverage to pass some time X

Luv yas! X
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Old November 7th, 2009, 04:14 PM
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Hey lovelies,

Twinsis My birthday is in a week, 14/11/1981 Im 28 this year and too young to be contemplating assisted conception just yet! Im not sure when BFP/AF day is...whether or not it is in a few days, 4 days, 5 days...Im going to go with a few days that way Im prepared for the worst..you know..mess wise.

Murraycod Yeah it was his pillow hehe he has one of those "firm wave" pillows or whatever they're called...you know, a "special" pillow..I dont know what the hell it is. Suffice to day it did the job of upholding my a5$ in the air hahaha

Ferrals Hope AF comes....FOR YOU NOT for me!!! TAKE AF FOR YOOOUUUU!!!!!!!! Sorry...just got carried away.
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Old November 8th, 2009, 01:28 AM
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Murraycod - Ha ha your post totally made me laugh. I know I should stay away from the stick but ....I have a confession...... I could not. I am only 10DPO but his morning at 6am I could not sleep since my nose is so darned clogged and so I was lying in bed obsessing. I have not been temping this month but I decided to take one just to see what it might be and it was up in the right range. I finally decided to get up and take a test just to stop me from obsessing. It was of course negative. I know it's a bit early to test so I have not given up hope yet but it was good for me to see that negative to temper my growing excitement a little bit and prepare me for AF possibly showing up this week.

OOOh one cycle of TTC naturally, better get lots of BDing in and you may get lucky. it does seem counterproductive to go on birth Control but if your dates need to be exact then it does make sense. I have 4 friends who got PG as soon as they went off BC so hopefully it will mean only one cycle of IVF (if the natural way doesn't work out)


Coco - ooh your Birthday is so soon. I was already hoping for a BFP for you this month but now I'm REALLY hoping for a BFP for you. That would be such a great B-day pressie. My son's 2nd birthday is a few days after yours (on the 18th) and there will be a lot of PG moms at his b-day party so I was hoping to get my BFP before then. I caved and tested today (a bit early) only to get a negative. Fingers crossed we both get BFPs in a few more days.

AFM - Day 2 of spot watch and so far so good. I can't seem to keep off BB, I have all this anxious energy to burn off. I already confessed to my weakness re: POAS (got a BFN). Still hoping AF stays away. The next few days are going to draaaaaag by.
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Old November 8th, 2009, 04:23 AM
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<sigh> I have some spotting, and coupled with a bfn this morning, it looks like I'm out for this month
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Old November 8th, 2009, 07:33 AM
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OOh...Twinsis.. I have had a bfn too this morning.
for me with a 10miu internet cheapie today...I know "its not over till its over" but even with my pregnancy that didnt last, at 14 dpo the levels were 53 so would have been detectable at 11 I say..

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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Old November 8th, 2009, 08:25 AM
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Well girls my AF is still not here i am never late and now i desperately want it to get this BT over and done with and of coures it wont come
My natropath did say as i went back on vitex to increase progesterone and lower my E2 that it might lengthen my lutenal phase (i think she called it) the last half of my cycle and she wouldn't be suprised if i was a day or 2 late but come on already we have been having lots of vigourous sex all over the house we have walked the dogs gone shopping and nothing is bringing them on i even went out with white pant's and no emergency tampons to test fate and bring it on and still nothing no pains no sign nadda!

Twin sis-sorry your's has turned up i would have gladly taken your AF for you.

CoCo-aww it still might be a bit early like i have said before with my 3 boys my +hpt showed up 4 -5 days before AF was due but with abbi it was the day before and verrrrry faint so don't give up hope just yet.
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Old November 8th, 2009, 09:51 AM
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Hey girls!

I have not caved! Only 8dpo anyway, waaaaay too early. BUT... Yesterday my temp was 36.8 - only other time it has ever been that high was when I was 7dpo on last bfp cycle. And, last night at a party, people were eating barbecued meat, and I just had to get away from it. Now, being vego, people sort of expect that, but it doesn't usually bother me. Last night it made me feel ILL. Hmmmmm... BT tomorrow at 7am, should get results by 12, but won't be able to post until evening. Sorry!

Hope everyone's having a grand weekend!
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Oh Coco it's not over yet - I have been watching your journey closely. I hope it's just too early to test honey. It's time for a new thread you can find it HERE.
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