Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - October 2009

[ferrals4]

Murrycod-glad you are feeling better and its a good idea to see your natropath to help with nature while you wait you never know you might hit the jackpot before january and I KNOW! november got here pretty quick i am so nervous about this blood test just hoping AF turns up on friday so i will have BT saturday cross thanks for the well wishes you always know what to say to make me feel better.

Coco- good luck!

Snugglebean yuk! dentist wisdom teeth not a good combo you poor thing.

Pumpkin-sorry for your losses and age has no meaning in our thread everyone is welcome.

I'm off to work i will be back to do more personals later.

[Twin Sister]

You guys are all so great, I always feel so much better after coming here

Murraycod - I am SO sorry to hear that this cycle of IUI didn't work out. I'm heartbroken for you. You seem to be handling it really well though. I hope the acupunturist helps. That's be great if you fell PG naturally before IVF begins.

Ferrals - oooh good luck with your BT. I hope you get the all clear!

eliselouise - lol I did think it a bit strange to be so close with your brother lol

Mathew's Mum - oooh not long now, please please give us some good news!

craftymummy - glad to hear your headache is finally gone. That would certainly put the damper on TTC. Now that you are feeling better, go catch that egg!

snugglybean - 4 teeth at once? Ouch that does not sound like much fun! I had mine pulled separately!

coco- you're around the same DPO as me. When are you going to test? I'm hoping to hold out until Sunday or Monday. I'll be thinking of you as I test.

SPF - Ugh how frustrating!

PumpkinZulu - I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. There are a great bunch of ladies in this thread and you will find amazing support here. No one here will give you a hard time becasue of your age either. We are all here for the same reason and we all want each other to get pregnant and stay pregnant.

I'm feeling a bit anxious today. My past two cycles I started spotting at 9DPO and kept spotting until AF showed up at 13DPO. Thusday is 9DPO and I soooo don't want to see any spotting. It's making me feel a bit ill thinking about it. I'm just so tired of TTC, I just want to be PG again.

[Matthew's Mum]

Hello everyone,Scarypinkfairy-maybe talk to your doc,it might ease your mind...Twinsister-hope your days are spot free...Snugglebean-Good luck with the denist...Murraycod-hope you managed to have some rest last night...afm-feeling nervous about tomorrow's testing if it is a bfp have decided not to tell anyone(except for you girls & doctor) as this month also is Matthew's 1st anniversary and i want to give this month to him.It's been the worst year of our lives,so hopefully we can end with some joy

[craftymummy9]

Hello everyone
Hope we are all feeling ok & thinking only positive thoughts today.
Murraycod hope your feeling a bit better today and AF is kind to you I still feel so bad for you its so not fair ! I you have a natural conception before Jan and then we will all be smiling,
Matthews mum phew 1 more day if I was you I would be on the loo every hour and got a sore toochee by now ! its so hard waiting and then the day before all you want to do is know the answer but you are scared of what the answer may be we are all behind you either way !
Hosebeastess thanks for your reply it does give us all hope I am at the older end of the age range and I know I would be lucky to fall pregnant again before a year of trying but there is always hope !
Ferrals4 hope your bloodtest gives you the answer you want and can go ahead with your IVF you have waited so patiently go girl !
Twin sister hope you don't do any spotting and get your BFP god knows we need some good news around here can't beleive how many of us are on this thread all in the same boat with a lost makes you feel sad that so many of us have to be in here.
pumkinzulu welcome sorry your on this thread but we are all here to give each other support and lots of I am 44 and my age is something people always have to mention so don't worry about it I had my 1st baby at just turned 20 he has just got married but I have not given up hope of having another baby even at my age, life is for living the way we want !

everyone else I forgot sorry soooo many people now we all need to move out of here onto the belly buddies thread !

[coco1411]

FF just told me that I ovulated earlier than I thought...which I thought I did anyway, but it means testing can start sooner!!!!

[Mildez]

Yeah Coco. I hope this is it for you. You have waited so long for a BFP then for another. for you

[bookworm12]

Hello, everyone, apologies in advance for not writing personals tonight. AF showed up Friday, just as well I had decided to wait until Saturday to test--one less wasted test. At least AF has gone back to pre-m/c levels, it was very heavy bleeding the last two cycles. I thought I was doing all right with the disappointment, but today has been really hard. Work has been stressful, and now DH's bicycle is out of order. I had to take him to work today, and we couldn't even drop the bike off at the shop for repair because they were closed for their founder's funeral. That means we can't drop it off until tomorrow and who knows if they'll have the necessary part in stock. It could be a few days before we have it in working order again. It saves us money to have only 1 car, but it throws a wrench in the works when the bike is broken. I bought chocolate on the way home from work, it sounded so good and hopefully it lifts my spirits a little. (Not that it'll lift me anywhere else, lol.)

[snugglybean]

Hey all!

bookworm - my DH does all our bike repairs. Pity we're not closer, he would fix you up! He services all the neighbours' bikes too! We don't have a car, sold ours nearly a year ago, and decided to see how we go. Sticking with it!

Matthew's Mummy - fingers crossed for two lines tomorrow!

coco - hey, I O'd a bit early this cycle too! We're not actively TTC, but the early O cuts it a bit fine and means I'm in an unofficial tww with you! When are you testing?

BUT the unofficial tww means I can't get the x-ray for my wisdom teeth until I know. Grrr!

[ferrals4]

Mathewsmum-i have a good feeling i will wake up and see your post with a BFP i have to leave to go to work a 10:30 so please please don't make us wait and let us know early i am so excited you will be our first in a run of BFP's

[coco1411]

Thanks for the messages everyone Matthews mum I hope I see your double lines tomorrow!!

I am not sure when I am testing.......LIAR!!! Im going to do one tomorrow morning because I am impatient :P

See you all later!!

[craftymummy9]

Evening Ladies

Well good luck to all testing tomoro will be excited to see who got a BFP in the morning.
Not many personnels tonight just a few quick ones
Muraycod hope your feeling a little better today and now counting the days for your natural cycle,
Well I started my OP sticks yesterday and got a faint line in the test window at 4pm so today I waited and did again at the same time and got 2 dark lines so the opk sticks work and I am so thrilled to know | am having a LH surge and will hopefuly O in the next 24-36hrs, as some of you know with my age I was begining to think my days were over as not O since my mc sept 3rd, so had a glass of wine to celebrate and will be later and not moving for a good few hours ( pillow under my but and so on ) and then I think again on friday just for good measure and then I will be in the TWW ,so anyone else joining me Elieslouise I think your cycle is close to mine

TO ALL OF US

fingers crossed for you coco1411 in the TWW I will be close behind you lets get some BFPs in here soon,

so sorry bookworm for your AF turning up and the problem with your DH bike life sometimes gives us lemons ! especially when we are a bit down anyway,

everyone else hope your all OK !

[scarypinkfairy]

i really hope we get two on here tomorrow then... it is so exciting and i am nervous for you both!

bookworm sorry to hear your af turned up. hopefully will be the last time for a while for you. good on your dh for riding his bike to work, that must save you a fair bit of money. must be a right hassle when it breaks though. we only have one car to share but luckily my dh gets a company van

good news there with the opks crafty mummy! glad they worked out for you

thanks girls for the advice but i had no bleeding all day then a small amount this evening. just can't work it out!

[Matthew's Mum]

Evening all,Thanks everyone for your positive wishes,just got back from a sids & kids support meeting where there was a pregnancy announcement from one of the ladies,so hope that was a good sign of things to come...Coco-Good luck for tomorrow,fingers crossed for you...Bookworm-So sorry af showed she just doesn't know when she's not welcome..Ferrals-I'll be sure to post before 10.30...Craftymummy-Enjoy that bd'ing...

[eliselouise85]

Morning all
Good luck to coco and matthewsmum with testing today, hopefully we will have 2 congratulations later on this morning.
Craftmummy i think our cycles are quite close, im due to ovulate today or tomoro i think i had a little bit of cm overnight at work but not quite as heavy as it gets so im thinking maybe tomoro which kinda sucks coz it means ive missed out again this week, not seeing db till saturday night so i think my chances are very slim, but hopefully you can get your BFP now knowing that you are ov at the moment, Good luck
Snugbug grr about not being able to get your xray done but hey a BFP would be much more exciting, when are you testing? Or just waiting for af?
Bookworm no good about DH's bike, thats great that you can cope with 1 car, i couldnt do that coz i work half hour away from where i live otherwise it would be great i think. Hopefully his bike is fixed real soon
Twinsis hopefully the spotting stays away and you too can get a BFP
SPF how annoying about the bleeding returning. Its so frustrating not knowing what your body is doing. Maybe go and see your doc if your worried about it. Hope it stops for you really soon
Pumpkinzulu welcome and sorry for your loss. As the other girls have said we will not judge you on your age at all. I too have known since i was about 18 that having a baby is what i wanted but unfortunately have had to wait till now and now its just so hard. Hopefully you will get a BFP real soon and find all the support you need here.
Hello to anyone ive missed
Not much going on with me, possibly ov today or tomoro so that will mean im out again this month - not seeing db till saturday night, GRRR so annoying i hate this time of year, worst time to TTC, bloody harvest!!!
Anyways off to bed, hope to check in when i wake up to see some BFP's

[Matthew's Mum]

Hello everyone,well i poas this morning and once again it was a bfn,i just can't get that 2nd line,now have to wait to see if af turns up to give clomid another go,uping my dose to 150mg for the last cycle on it...Fingers still crossed for you coco &foranyone else that is testing soon

[ferrals4]

AWWWWW! Mathews mum that sux i am so sorry! AF has not turned up yet so anything is possible.

[coco1411]

Sorry to hear Matthews mum!! When is AF due?

I had a too, having said that, I am only 9dpo.

I had a temp drop yesterday and today it has shot right up! Fingies & Toes!!

[snugglybean]

Yep, coco, defs too early. Everything crossed (except legs, girls, otherwise it'll never happen for any of us )
I have a blood test scheduled for Monday, just one of my regular routine follow-up ones. Will be 9dpo then, so hopefully something shows up? Then will POAS Tuesday morning. If either of them are bfp, then obviously the x-ray waits. Last time I got my bfp at 10dpo using first response, so I'm going out tonight to buy two. Only because of the x-ray issue. Otherwise, would just wait.

M'sM - sorry you didn't get your bfp today. Good luck with the rest of your clomid journey.