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August 19th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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take care sunbeam and be good to yourself. thinking of you.
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August 19th, 2009, 01:30 PM
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awe sunbeam, u will be missed, but we understand why u need some time away, take care hun.
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TTC #6 its been a long emotional 12 months
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August 19th, 2009, 01:42 PM
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Sunbeam - I'm so sorry things haven't worked out this month. Sometimes it all does seem so overwhelming.
Kyra - I am one of five kids and I find I constantly compare my life to the other four. Then the other day I happened to find out what the mortgage was that one of them had and I just about fell over, hers was double what mine is! I stopped feeling envious.
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August 19th, 2009, 02:05 PM
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Maddison - if anybody thought you were losers, they're just trying to console themselves, because they're not as lucky as you! What a great situation to be in!
I know some people see the life we live, and don't quite "get" it. We travel a lot (6 or so interstate trips every year, and usually an international one too) btu we actually sacrifice a bit to be able to do it. I cook cheaply, we furnish our house cheaply, I live in 2nd hand clothes 
You know what expense I really resent? Condoms. AND I hate using them - I feel like such a kid! I am a grown up, in a monogamous relationship, where we madly want a child, but are forced into using them because of this situation. I fricken hate it! I hate it so much!
The codeine I took is making me feel SO woozy. Apologies for anything too random...
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August 19th, 2009, 03:38 PM
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sammy -=- thanx girl -- i think im just a bit emotional atm
and heres maybe why
I just did a very faint but def there BFP... one day b4 af is due
Time to get nervous..... I dnt wnt to lose another baby :S :'(
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August 19th, 2009, 03:41 PM
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Woohoo Kyrawolfe. Congratulations on the BFP!!!!!
That would explain the emotional feelings!
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August 19th, 2009, 03:44 PM
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ooooooohhhh, kyra, I hope it is, I hope it is!
Umm, Sunbeam, I'll still be here when you get back! Hopefully the others won't though,  Catch you then, chicken, but I hope you have a good time in the meantime.
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August 19th, 2009, 04:04 PM
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KYRA!!!! - That's so exciting. I'm so pleased for you. 
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August 19th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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i keep looking at the test wondering if the line will dissapear or if i was imagining things to begin with..but no its def there.. in fact its quite a bit darker then i first thought..
All i can think about is last time i got so excited just to start bleeding a few days later..
Thank you everyone for all ur support btw..
I might try a few mroe tests before im convinced tho
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sunbeam -=- Im sorry AF arrived  I will miss you <3 If you want you can add me to faceook.. <3<3 Kyra
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August 19th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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Kyrawolfe-When i was your age (14 year's ago) i had no car all second hand furniture and felt like i was the scum of the family as my sister and step sibling's all had houses and new car's at 23 i had 3 boy's my hubby at the time wasn't working and i thought i would never have what every one around me had (and i'm not bragging about what i have just trying to show you thing's will get better) but i worked my arse off i had 2 job's and also cleaned club's while my boy's were asleep at night and now i have a new 7 seater car a house full of beautiful furniture, plazma, laptop's ect and my kid's have everything they need i am debt free and have a deposit for a house in the bank (can't afford house just yet not while IVF is happening) but it took 14 year's to get were i am and i just want you to know at the end of the day my now gorgeous hubby and i would be happy together in a caravan because no amount of money bring's happieness i find it bring's sercurity knowing i dont have to worry about paying the bill's but having my kid's my hubby and our health is what's important if you are happy and have your health that's all that matter's the rest will come with time.
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August 19th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Kyra-just saw your post.
woohoo congratz!
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August 19th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Sunbeam-i will miss you but i will still be here when you come back cause it will be at least 2 mth's before anything happen's for me.
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August 19th, 2009, 04:35 PM
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Sorry Ladies but i am bleeding !
xoxo
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August 19th, 2009, 05:21 PM
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August 19th, 2009, 05:27 PM
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Hello gorgeous ladies,
Quick post for me, but couldn't lurk through so much going on.
Kyra:   CONGRATULATIONS on your BFP. Perhaps your life is mirroring mine a little with the ages of DS and our mc etc. Couldn't be happier for you.
Chickybabe: Sorry to hear that you are bleeding. Is is a lot?  that everything is still ok. Please keep us updated. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sunbeam: (but this one is waving goodbye). Babydust for you in the upcoming months. I hope that your break from BB is just what you need and when you return your stay is short. Thankyou for all your positivity. You will be missed.
Cheers
Lisa
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August 19th, 2009, 05:31 PM
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Chickybabe - actual bleeding or spotting like before? I'm saying prayers and crossing fingers for you sweetie!
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August 19th, 2009, 05:49 PM
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CB: I have my fingers crossed for you...praying that it is implantation or something like that and that you have a beautiful bundle in a matter of months.  
kyra: thats such great news... Don't feel bad about your stuff, my db and i live in a removeable home! but we enjoy things basic. I don't spend more that $10 on clothes if I can help it and most of our stuff is 2nd hand or given to us...yet we are so very happy (except for not yet having a bub)
Hi to everyone, where is everyone at in cycles.
Ferrals - woo hoo on the possible quick IVF! that would be so fantastic for you!
Sunbeam:  I hope this break helps you and that you get that bfp as soon as you are back!
Hi Sammy, Sunny, Snugglybean, Cherished, Joshsmum, Tanya, Maddison, Anila, ZStar and anyone else (there are so many!)
AFM: I know I'm still about 10days from RB due but I feel preg  not in the sore ( Y ), or ms way, just something in my body feels different. I'm hoping its not me getting my hopes up, this would be the perfect time as I would be out of the first trimester when we would go on holidays. I'm trying not to get excited in any way, shape or form but I can't help but to have my hopes rise.
After 5 angels it would be such a blessing to have a bub. I am hoping I get severe ms etc, I'll prob whinge but love it at the same time.
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August 19th, 2009, 05:56 PM
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Chickybabe-is it just spotting? i have said this to other ladies my best friend spotted a lot for the 1st 10 week's of her pg and she is due in 8 week's.
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