Well, I spoke about this with
DH yesterday.
He is happy to delay the cord clamping, so we will definitely be having that in our birth plan.
However he is all for the synto for me... he stresses & worries about me I guess

...so I think the compromise is we will wait & see. (He thinks I will have a shot after 10-20 minutes - I think we will just wait & see what the mids / drs think).
I'm certainly not opposed to having it if I need it! I just don't see the point in having it 'just in case'.
So yeah - 'wait and see' for us too
Sounds like you at least have a supportive midwife there

My next appt at hosp is at 41 weeks, hopefully I won't make it! but if I do I will certainly be bringing it up then & see what they say.