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September 19th, 2009, 11:18 PM
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hi all,
i'm back with a missed miscarriage, i was 11 weeks 3 days. Had a D&C sept 3rd 
this is so hard to take in after loosing again when i thought everything was going good.
now i am giving my body a break to heal from the losses. i'm pretty sure it's my hormones being out of whack. i'm still bleeding spotting but i hope it stops soon. 
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dd Misty 15
dd Nakita 8
ds Dakota 1  5-9-09 N/M @ 8w1d 9-3-09 M/M D&C @ 11w3d
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September 20th, 2009, 09:54 AM
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Sorry for your losses,I to had a missed miscarriage(It's such a shock,when you're not having symptoms,I had morning sickness the day I went for my routine scan ,I was worried I wouldn't be able to keep all that water down).The doctors told me you can still feel pregnant because of hormones are bodies still make,now that you've had a d&c hopefully you'll start to feel better soon,physically that is,I know emotionally i'ts not that easy.Hope you find a way that helps you through your grief.hugs
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Me-40 DH-54 DD1--18,DD2--12,DS1--4,DS2--Left my tummy at 14 weeks,never to leave my heart.[25-11-2008]
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September 20th, 2009, 10:19 AM
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
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September 20th, 2009, 10:39 AM
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WindyL im sorry for your loss. RIP little angel.
I hope that you are taking care of yourself, and give your heart time to heal X
We are all hear for you X
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September 20th, 2009, 10:00 PM
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Thanks Ladies,
I've been taking it easy, Hubby has been taking care of me and the kids.
I have a follow up appt. next wed. i don't even know what to expect at the appt. since i had a D&C. anybody that had a d&c know what is going to happen at the follow up appt?
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dd Misty 15
dd Nakita 8
ds Dakota 1 5-9-09 N/M @ 8w1d 9-3-09 M/M D&C @ 11w3d
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September 21st, 2009, 09:04 PM
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glad you've been able to take it easy,I didn't have a d&c but at my follow up appointment councilling ,any testing what was done and a pregnancy plan for next time was discussed.
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Me-40 DH-54 DD1--18,DD2--12,DS1--4,DS2--Left my tummy at 14 weeks,never to leave my heart.[25-11-2008]
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September 21st, 2009, 09:28 PM
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I had a missed misscarriage as well. It is such a shock and takes a long time to understand and come to terms with it, and the feeling of loss has never gone away for me. After my D&C I had what was like a normal AF, my cycle returned to normal straight away but I let my body heal and didn't even think about TTC for a year or so. At the follow up appointment my Ob checked when I wanted to TTC again and how I was coping physically and emotionally. He also discussed what would happen if I conceived again and what tests would be done.
Hope you are ok
Me & DH
DD1 - 6 years & DD2 - 12 weeks
AB Jan 03 & Jul 07
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September 21st, 2009, 09:38 PM
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So sorry to hear that. I'm only new here and I don't know you but just wanted to send you some cyber hugs. I know it doesn't take the pain away, but hope you and your family can get through this.
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September 22nd, 2009, 10:11 AM
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hi
thinking of you and both of your precious babies.
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September 22nd, 2009, 05:37 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, take your time to deal with the emotions and rely on the support from your family and all the great people in here.
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