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Old July 23rd, 2009, 08:30 PM
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Question Need some advice

I hope this is the right sub-forum.

I miscarried at 9 weeks, 3 weeks ago and had a D&E. Since then I've had light bleeding until last Friday and spotting on and off since then. The spotting has been pretty light but will vary in colour, sometimes brown, sometimes a brighter red. Should I be concerned about this.

This is my third miscarriage, the first two were lost at 5 and 6 weeks and were miscarried naturally - basically the proverbial heavy period. I saw my gyno for a post op visit last Thursday (2 weeks post procedure) and told him the bleeding was tapering off. He didn't seem to be concerned.

I guess what gets me is that this is a constant reminder of what I have lost. If and when it stops I think it will be easier for me to move on. Of course I am still waiting on results from some blood tests to see why I seem to be miscarrying (one more week until results) and my tempreture charting is all over the place suggesting that my cycle hasn't settled down yet not that we had planned to try again straight away. I just feel that I will cope a lot better when things are more normal but it doesn't seem to be happening. This M/C has hit harder emotionally than the other two and I hate feeling like I am standing still.

Thanks for this,
Susan
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Old July 23rd, 2009, 08:50 PM
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Don't have any advice hun just wanted to give you some hugs. Take care of yourself my thoughts are with you xxx
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M/s does not in any way means that you can't TTC just have confidence and trust on your self ..........consult a gyn so that they can help you out to improve on your health..........just take care of your self
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