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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:36 AM
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I just can't stop crying. I went to the cemetary this morning and found Emmanuel's headstone scribbled all over and his teddy's are gone. Why would someone do this. How can people get pleasure out of doing something that causes this much pain. I want to go back and clean it up but can't just now. I should have reported it to the caretakers but I was a wreck at the time and couldn't talk to anyone. My poor little baby never hurt anyone, I just want one more cuddle.

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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:41 AM
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Oh Dianne, firstly hug big hugs to you honey
What horrid monsters! I hope they get caught for such a low act. It makes me wonder if nothing is sacred to some people

I wish there was something I could do or say to make you feel better and to take this hurt away from you.
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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:44 AM
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Oh that is so sad. What a horrible thing for someone to do. I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
I think it would be a good idea to report it when you feel up to it though.
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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:45 AM
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peple have no dame respect!!!!!!!

Honey can someone ring the care taker for you or clean his headstone for you?
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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:49 AM
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*big big hugs* thats horrable. the people/person who did that needs to be taken behind a shed and...hurt. thats utterly disrespectful. *hugs*
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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:51 AM
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thats disgracefull!!
how could anyone do that? i dont understand.
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Old May 30th, 2009, 11:56 AM
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Thats absolutely disgusting
I cannot imagine the mentality of someone who would go and do something like this, its thoughtless, calress and down right disrespectful.

I am so sorry hun definately report it to the caretakers. I am so sorry you had to go through this.

nothing but a bunch of thoughtless cowards, maybe report it to the police too.

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That's really aweful. I'm so sad about this. Don't people have any respect anymore?

I'm so sorry that this happened to you. You really need to report it to the caretakers and police
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Oh hun That's terrible I am appalled that anyone could do that... I'm so sorry. HUGE hugs for you
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Sweetheart I'm so sorry that you are sad because of someone else's thoughtlessness. I'm hoping that if those people understood even a fraction of the pain they caused you, they would have thought twice.

Can a caretaker or friend fix things up for you? Gentle hugs. xo
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Oh my... Big hugs hun Can't idiots like that just leave things alone! It's so disrespectful! Grrrr
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So many lowlifes out there!!!

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oh hun thats terrible, i am crying for you. Why do some peple need to be such low lifes.

Please ring the caretaker and notify them, can you get someone else to clean it for you?

I wish i was closer as I would clean it for you.

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Thats absolutely appalling. What horrid little morons. I would definately report it to the caretaker and police before it is cleaned and hopefully they catch the little heartless ****s. I am so so sorry they did this to your little boys grave. I wish I lived closer so I could clean his headstone for you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this, its disgraceful.
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Dianne, i am so sorry that this has happened. it breaks my heart. I would get someone to contact the caretaker and they will hopefully clean it up for you.
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So sorry Dianne. It's a senseless, stupid thing that someone has done. I hope someone is able to clean it up for you very soon.
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how very distressing! I hope you can restore his headstone as soon as possible
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Oh Dianne that is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry that happened. What a terrible thing.
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