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May 30th, 2009, 09:46 PM
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This is truly horrible. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Some people can be so selfish.  |
May 30th, 2009, 09:59 PM
|  | Love is a doing word... | | Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Perth WA
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I'm so very, very sorry this has happened to you.
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May 30th, 2009, 10:34 PM
|  | Each day brings a new beginning | | Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Melbourne, VIC
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Dianne, I am so very sorry this happened to you. Some people are just so cruel and have no idea of what hurt they cause others. Sending you huge hugs hun, these monsters have no concience. So angry!!
Big hugs hunni.
Beata xxx
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May 30th, 2009, 10:44 PM
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Oh Dianne, I am so sorry this has happened I wish I could do something to fix it all for you.
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May 31st, 2009, 12:20 AM
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oh, how can anyone be THAT cruel
you poor darling, it's beyond words.
i can understand you being too upset, to report it today.
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May 31st, 2009, 05:24 AM
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Oh No no no.. Could think of alot of things to scream right now but instead I am in tears, I am so so sorry.. I have gone to write so many things, but nothing sounds even ok... Don't know what to say, I am so sorry many |
May 31st, 2009, 10:41 AM
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Thank you so much to everyone, your replies mean so much to me. DH went down yesterday and spoke to the caretakers and cleaned Emmanuel's headstone. They said they have had a few headstones vandalised so DH went back down when it got dark, he was hoping to catch them. I was sick to the stomach all day yesterday, feeling so much anger towards whoever did this then falling in a a heap in tears. Feeling better today, going down later to see my little boy. I just felt like my baby was hurt and just wanted to cuddle him.
Thank you again for your kind words.
Regards,
Dianne
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May 31st, 2009, 10:46 AM
|  | Single mummy to my beautiful DS | | Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Gippsland, Victoria
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Im so sorry that this happened to you and your husband. It's beyond words how awful it is |
May 31st, 2009, 10:47 AM
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Dianne  I am so sorry you have to deal with this on top of the loss of your little one. I couldn't begin to imagine the distress you would be feeling. I am terrified every time I leave the house for any length of time that something will happen to Caitlyn's ashes while I am away  I hope your DH is ok too - they often have to do the hard stuff for us without recognition of how much it hurts them too. Give him a big cuddle and know Emmanuel is safe and secure - those disrespectful people earthside can never harm your baby |
June 1st, 2009, 05:58 PM
|  | Babies are the nicest way of all to start making people | | Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: SA
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I am so sorry to hear this Dianne.
Just another thing for you to have to deal with. No respect for others at all.
This hurts my heart - I can't even begin to imagine how you feel.
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June 12th, 2009, 11:35 PM
|  | Love is the best feeling in the world! | | Join Date: May 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Hi Dianne, im sorry to hear about what happened, i am disgusted and apalled, but im also scared this could happen to my sons headstone/toys etc.. and im terrified everytime i go visit him, that things may not be there, so someone else always has to check for me, its also very recent, i had him stillborn, 3rd May, so its recent, and im not coping with having to visit him in that way.
I am glad though, that it turned out to be a positive ending, and you got some of your childs things back, i hope it never happens again!!
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