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Old May 30th, 2009, 03:13 PM
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I'm so sorry that someone has done this to your baby's headstone
why the world is filled with some garbage people we will never know... i'm very sorry this has happened to you. It's not right.
Hope you can find some peace soon.
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Old May 30th, 2009, 03:26 PM
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Words cannot express how disgusted I am that people have done this.

I'm so sorry, and I wish I could help in some way.

Some people are just low lifes I guess.

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Old May 30th, 2009, 03:44 PM
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I am so sorry my love. This is so hurtful and distressing - I hope there is someone who can help clean up the mess these thoughtless people left. Big hugs darling woman...
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Dianne I am so sorry, how awful for you hun
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I am so furious for you, Dianne. I can't imagine what could possibly have been going through their heads.

I would get someone to contact the care taker for you, you should never have to see it in that state ever again.
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Dianne, I am so sorry to hear that happened it must have been terribly upsetting to find that this morning. I hope there is someone that can clean the mess up for you. Know that these people are just senseless & selfish. I wish I could give you a big hug and go and clean it up myself. PM me anytime M x
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Old May 30th, 2009, 04:16 PM
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Oh Dianne that is heartbreaking, some people have NO IDEA.

I hope you can clean it up or get in contact with the caretakers to clean it for you soon. Take care of yourself. Sending you massive hugs.
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Some ppl have absolutely no respect for another human being....it is absolutley degraceful defacing someones headstone, just remember what goes around comes around!
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hat an awful thing to do.

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Gosh how awful. Huge Hope that someone can clean it for you.
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this makes me sick what sick person could do this to an innocent baby and family?
do people have no respect anymore what has happened to the world?
this makes me so mad.
im so sorry you have been targeted by such sick people.
I hope they get caught
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Aw hun, I'm so so sorry.
I cannot imagine what you're going through right now, but what they've done is absolutely disgusting. People can be so cruel, heartless and just plain stupid sometimes. I hope they're brought to justice before they do it to anymore. I wish I could help more.

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I am so sorry hun, that must have been so heartbreaking to see. I hope the caretakers can restore your baby's headstone as soon as possible.

It must have been very hard to restrain yourself to only use the word "idiot", I can think of a few choice names for people like this. They surely must have no soul.
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I'm so sorry to hear this Dianne - what is it with people today, no respect for others or themselves.

I hope someone's able to clean the headstone for you, what disrespect to take the teddies too

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Oh Dianne, I am so sorry you ahve had to go through somethisg so insensitive!
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Oh i am so sorry this has happened... Some people have no morals....

Wish there was something more i could do... Hope Karma comes back to bit them on the bum
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Oh Dianne, I'm so so sorry. What a dreadful experience for you

I can't even begin to imagine why someone would do that.

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How very very sad and discraceful. I'm so sorry this has happened.
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