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May 20th, 2009, 11:31 AM
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hi all
i was just wondering how would you feel if somebody didn't believe your were pg and you had a m/c. and you posted a pic of your u/s to prove you were pg and show everybody your lil bean.
then that person who didn't believe you was pg or had a m/c
stole you u/s pic and put their name on it and said this is how you can mess with a u/s pic and put your name on one.
how would that make you feel seeing somebody doing that to your U/S pic of your angel who is in heaven. and still grieving over your loss? 
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May 20th, 2009, 11:35 AM
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ild feel disgusted disrespected and ripped off and angry and hurt and very betrayed. how spiteful unconsiderate is that!  im so sorry for your precious loss.
Last edited by Nelle; May 20th, 2009 at 11:42 AM.
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May 20th, 2009, 11:35 AM
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I have never heard of anything so insane! That is truly horrible  |
May 20th, 2009, 11:40 AM
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What an awful, awful thing to do!
I am so very sorry for your loss and this disgusting person adding to your anguish!
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May 20th, 2009, 11:40 AM
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I would think that that person had some serious emotional disturbance to do such a hurtful and disrespectful thing - and waaaay too much time on their hands. Personally that person would be dead to me and their existence would never be acknowledged from this day forth.
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May 20th, 2009, 11:53 AM
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yes it hurt me bad to see what she did to my U/S pic.
lets just say she was on a buddy group i was in on another website
and i hope she gets whatever is coming to her.
they are so lame they even stalk me 
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May 20th, 2009, 11:56 AM
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I'm shocked. That is such disgusting behaviour.
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May 20th, 2009, 12:01 PM
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windy, at first I hoped you were posting this as a 'what if' scenario but I see your second post and see it is true. Firsly I am sorry for your loss, secondly I believe in what goes around comes around. Not wishing loss on anyone but I hope they get some sort of cosmic slap (one that really stings) in the face that makes them realise what a hurtful thing they did. Did you report this behavior to the person in charge of the website?
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May 20th, 2009, 12:01 PM
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That is absolutely disgusting, I would NEVER be having any contact with that person again!!
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May 20th, 2009, 12:05 PM
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i am so sorry this has happened to you and i am so sorry for your loss of your precious little one.
Karma is a biatch and will bite that person when they are not looking.
BB is a great site and there are so many supportive people here. |
May 20th, 2009, 12:11 PM
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That's effing disgusting. I hope she gets what's coming to her as well. Karma is a powerful thing.
I'm sorry you've had to deal with this after such a devistating thing happening to you and your family. |
May 20th, 2009, 12:33 PM
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I think that is absolutely appalling behaviour from someone who likes to think they're an adult. How did they know about altering the ultrasound? Personal experience or what? This person sounds sick and I hope they stay out of your life.
I am very sorry to hear about your loss honey. You definitely need support at this time, not criticism. I am sure you will find tonnes of support here at BB.
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May 26th, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AliBaby  i am so sorry this has happened to you and i am so sorry for your loss of your precious little one.
Karma is a biatch and will bite that person when they are not looking.
BB is a great site and there are so many supportive people here. | Alibaby said it Karma is a MASSIVE BIATCH and that person (if you can call someone so heartless a person) will get theirs.
I'm so sorry for your loss and send you massive squishy healing hugs.
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May 26th, 2009, 08:04 PM
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I'd feel like I needed to find some new and sane friends.
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May 26th, 2009, 08:17 PM
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I second Nai's comment there ...
... I so hope you DON'T have 'anything' to do with this extremely cruel & insensitive person !!!
Sadly there are very disturbed people like this in the world WE MUST always walk away from ... no point in dealing with them as they are far too damaged & cruel within themselves to understand what they have done 
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May 26th, 2009, 08:35 PM
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I'm with Nai. They'd be dead to me.
Not worth any of your heartache, honey. Here at BB you will find support. I am sorry for your loss.
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May 27th, 2009, 04:57 AM
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thanks ladies
just thank god i don't know her personally or know her irl
she seems messed up in the head and has 2 kids. i feel so sorry for her kids to have a mother more immature then them.
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June 19th, 2009, 12:43 AM
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unfortunately i am a new member to this group and i am disgusted how people can do something like that.
i m/c at 22 weeks and the father still doesn't know. he has rarely been in contact and has purposely been awkward and hurtful throughout the pregnancy. one of his friends came up to me in the pub the other day and was shouting at me and has accused me of lying about being pregnant and now i am no longer pregnant i don't think they are ever going to believe me. it maybe wouldn't be so bad but where i live is a very small place and chance are i will see them a lot.
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