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Old September 3rd, 2009, 02:56 PM
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 03:30 PM
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WILLOW _ Darl it could be either of those two, but given that the Dr had warned that it would upset his little belly, that's probably what it is. When does he come off the AB's entirely? Cos I'd probably give it a few days after they stop completely & then see if he's still doing it? If he settles down, then it has to be the AB's, if he continues then perhaps look more closely at reflux? It's a tricky one because they both sound possible.

JANIE _ Geepers woman, I can't wait to hear your spectacular news!

ANNA _ I posted on your FB but I'm sooooooo thrilled for you to be able to move next week. That is just brilliant news! Are the 2 big boys going to bunk down together or you're going to have River in with you? (still loving you chose River over Gage hehe). It doesn't matter if the place was a 1 x bedroom - it's still yours! It's brilliant. I'm so glad things are finally settling in for you. The daycare, swimming lessons & soccer classes sound awesome! It's just wonderful to hear that something is finally coming your way.

DEB _ Congrats on the new car honey, I can't wait to hear what the irish sales man was like! lol

ME _ We have had a fantastic day so far. Claudy did the most brilliant swimming lesson & Alan was here to see it. He was so happy with her. She can actually swim a few metres on her own now & she is starting to get her arms out the water when she is paddling. It's so amazing to see how all the actions have finally come together & she is getting through the water. She is sleeping on the couch atm, she has been complaining fo a sore belly after swimming & I realise she hasn't done Number 2's in a few days, so I really hope she isn't constipated again like the week before my Sydney trip. Alan has a special fathers day dinner ot attend at the school tonight with Jessica. She is soooooooo mega excited, I have told Alan to take as much video footage as possible, I want to see exactly how it goes. LOL.

Oh & Banjo should be coming next week - he was micro-chipped & vet checked yesterday & now he's just awaiting the magical 8 week age & he is mine! YAY!
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 03:52 PM
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Willow - U can get a baby probiotic, I used it for Loren when she was born. I was on some horible antibiotics after giving birth and Loren was unsettled in the tummy just like your Dean. It helped immensely
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BEK _ I just noticed all your babies are born on the 9th of their respective months! How cool is that?
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 06:17 PM
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Janie stalk - I am getting stressed...
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 06:26 PM
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Deb - don't stress, I'm sure everything is just fine and she'll be in to let us know soon

Janie - thinking of you and hoping all is OK

Bek - can you remember what it was called? Did you get it from the chemist? DH and I are getting more and more stressed that he has reflux
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 06:29 PM
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Well i"m stressed - because I worry, and I am - well worried....
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I've sent her a text. Waiting for a response. The scan wasn't until 5 ish so hopefully it is just afternoon traffic and little people stuff delaying her
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Thanks Michelle - I thought she said 3pm???? Oh dear I need to meditate...
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i had a text from her earlier ladies all is good, no other details but i know that she means all is great! hope that settles you all! x
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Oh thankyou Loula - I have been really worried about not hearing from her. So glad that she is okay and her little bean is too...
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Update from Janie - all is good EDD 11th April 2010. Her DH has the computer tonight but she wanted to let you know all is well!!! She will be on to update tomorrow

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That's great, I am so glad to hear all is well Janie, congrats!

Anna - woohoo on your house! It sounds great and must be such a relief to have finally found a place.

Deb - don't ever worry about bringing us down, we want to hear how you are going and offer our support. We know how difficult things are for you right now. I am glad to hear you are getting somewhere with the settlement now, that's good news.

Willow - your poor little boy. I hope it isn't reflux. DD had reflux and it was a nightmare. Hopefully it is just the ABs and will calm down soon.

Jayne - sounds like you had a fab time in Karratha! Glad you all enjoyed yourselves so much. I used to live there but haven't been in ages although my BIL and SIL have just moved there for work. There is also a possibility that we may move there at some stage because of DH's industry, so I am glad you made it sound ok! It was very different when we lived there years ago, not much there at all.

Well guys, I am totally stoked because our scan went well and we are expecting a little baby BOY! I am over the moon! I always get very tense at scans so it is such a relief to know that all is perfect and we have a little man on the way this time!
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Willow - Babybiotic is the name (I think) and I got it from a health shop. I know chemists don't have it. Have you got a good health shop near you.

Janie- Yey

Bun - Yey, I got goose bumps when I read your post. I am so happy that you are having a son.

Janyne - Yep it is freaky that they are all born on the 9th!!!

Anna - Whoot good on you!!

Must go I have had a horrible day that started at 3am.
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Just a quickie from me tonight..

so happy for you Janie thats great news hun!!

Bek - hugs sweety.

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