Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion

[*Bree-Ana*]

Yes thank you Dianne.
I sometimes have days where i just wanna stay in bed all day but unfortnately i can't cause i have to keep on with my life.. So says my boyfriend.
At the moment its hard just going day by day when i know that as i progress onwards that my darling Elena will never have that luxory.

Uhm not so family and not many friends are being all that supportive.
Probably cause no one really approved of it.

Is it so wrong that i still am keen to have a baby at such young of an age??
Its hard to believe it was only 2 months and 2 days ago i had a baby and now i dont.
Its heart braking.

*Bree-Ana*

[lauren22]

Bree-Ana
regardless of age or how far along you were it hurts.
I know what you mean i miss my baby more and more each day and its hard to believe that almost a month ago my baby was ripped from me but all i can say is already it has taught me alot, i got my priorities in order.
Yes you are very young and i would suggest careful consideration but hey its your life and no one elses.
I really hope your ok.
Lauren

[*Bree-Ana*]

Thank you.
Most people just consider my age and say i dont know what i'm talking about but in actual fact i very much know what i'm talking about.

With everyday passing and missing her even more it hurts..
Sometimes i just want it all to end but deep down inside i know it will never happen.
With loosing Elena it gave me a reality check on my career pathway and i now know what i'm going to do with my life. Which is a bit of a relief.

I dont plan on having a baby anytime soon now.
I was just wondering if its normal to really want a baby at this age.
I mean i was rather over the moon when i found out i was pregnant and i really do miss being pregnant.

*Bree-Ana*

[pepe]

Hi everyone,

Im new to this web site, but as im sure you all can imagine..when you are disparate you go looking everywhere for answers.

I have lost a total of 15 pregnancies, the last one as recent as yesterday. As much as I am grieving I just want some answers. So if anyone can help...I thank you now.

I have had every test under the sun done, to be told there is nothing wrong with me...I beg to differ, there must be something wrong explain 15 losses???, Is there something Im missing??

I have been seen in the public system where my GP made a referral for me, however maybe if I went private my outcome would be different??, can anyone recommend a specialist on the Central Coast NSW?.

I realize that I may be grabbing at straws, I jsut want some answers.

Thank you all..x

[mariella]

Hello everybody,

new here, i suffered a pre-term labour and miscarriage at 17 weeks after my appendix burst. While recovering well physically, the emotions do take some time to even out.. and i just wanted to add my thoughts on grieving.

I think the difference b/w men and women here is that while men enjoy the here and now of being pregnant, (Yes, my wife's pregnant with our second, yes it's great) as women we project a future that is hard to grieve for - because it's in our head. After 12 weeks, or even earlier, you've already thought about the planned birth date - what that means in terms of existing family members - for example the age difference between mine would have been 2yrs and 4 months; how old she would have been when my son went to kindy (8mths), school (2 years 8mths) what we would have looked like going on holiday (exhausted)

So while i am still coming to terms with the fact that I'm no longer pregnant - I had begun to feel her moving, I find it harder to process the images and thoughts of what is no longer going to happen.... November due date, this Christmas with a new baby...