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Old May 12th, 2009, 12:26 PM
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ok i forgot to ask earlier, I am on day 20. I swear that i o'd over day 14-15 but now yest and today day 19-20 having very similar o pains again.( really tight little cramps every now and again ) Its very strange. Has anyone ever had o like pains a few days ofter o'd.?? Im so confused.
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Thanks Beckie - so we are insync! This is the first month where my (.)(.) have really really hurt - almost unbearable. I have had painful bre...ts before - as a sign of AF coming but not (.)(.) It is rather annoying! I don't have any other signs, apart from my body feels like it could just collapse, my muscles just feel very exhausted... but I put that down to other medication I am on. Fingers crossed for you.

Wantbaby#2 - it is crazy the dreams - I was soo excited in my dream, and then woke up, so I did the test. BFN!

Frustrated - I get cramping but only usually around O. I have had it previously later but didn't know what it was. I try to write down everything now in a diary because you forget what pains are at what time of the month. But am pretty hopeless with this!

Either way I will know something tomorrow. I just wish it would hurry up!

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Old May 12th, 2009, 01:48 PM
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Bec

I agree with you, i just want to know either way,its killing me! I think of nothing else 24/7.

You so lucky to be getting a BT tomorrow,my Dr told me to come back and i could get one tomorrow also but i have to go visit my granmother and its over a 2 hour drive so i will be busy all day so if no AF by Thurs then i will go and get my BT and i will be day 28 then.

This will be my 6th pg if i am pg and i only had the saw (.)(.) with number 4 and have not had then any other time,not even when im getting AF,nothing,not a tingle but im still thinking its the Clomid as my (.)(.) are going crazy.

I think i was seeing things with my HPT today as i now can see nothing, my thinking is that it would show by now if i was but then you hear all these stories of girls getting BFP like a week after AF due so thats my crappy bit of hope im hanging on to.
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Old May 12th, 2009, 03:37 PM
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Hi Frustrated. In response to your question about pains after ov,i had them last month.It was 7 days after ov and they varied between light cramps to shrp stabs to a stretching,pulling sensation.I thought it was implantation but no.My period arrived 2 days after i expected and had a neg test.Im not sure what it was but after googling everything i could only come up with a side effect of clomid.Hope this helps.Fingers crossed its implantation.
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lol looks like we got ourselves a trifects im also on day 26 lets hope at least one of us come up with a BFP.
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Thanks so much to everyone who replied to my link, its so good to be able to post things that are happening & to see erveyone's response.
I didnt even think that my pains could be implentation, i was just more so confused that maybe i didnt ovulate when i thought i did and o'd much later. Fingers crossed then...
i go for my day 21 prog test today, then the waiting game begins again...

SOMEONE GIVE US SOME GOOD NEWS
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Old May 13th, 2009, 08:32 AM
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Trifecta Tammara! Well I have just gone for my blood test and it is the wait all day for the results! I shouldn't really whinge!

Gee I am in a crabby mood today - so am thinking it is going to be a BFN as it is lead up week.

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Well received my results BFN - my coordinator left a lovely message on my mobile! so i wasn't very happy about that, you would think that they would have some tact! Anyway off to the doctors tomorrow, again.

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sorry to hear that Bec, I agree a little tact would make the world of difference.
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Hi Becc....im so sorry to hear that.It makes you want to scream.We all HATE negative results.Last month i cried,screamed,yelled at god,yelled at myself etc etc.The good thing about this forum is that we ALL know how you feel and we can all support each other through it.I hope that it happens next month for you...fingers crossed.
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HI All

Im sorry to hear about your BFN Bec,that sucks bigtime!

I myself did ANTHOER HPT today,an early one and zip,not even a hint of a BFP so i can confidently say that im over and out this month,i was so sure this was my month,especially after lap/hsyt last month and the CLomid,oh well come on cycle 2 of clomid,cant wait (NOT)

I hope everyone else is doing ok for this month,i hope you get a BFP Tammara,one of the three of us needs to lol......
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Make that 1 of 4 of us, I too am day 27 today and no BFP, infact got BFN on my birthday, great birthday present sucks big time! Bring on af for cycle #2....
Good luck to tammara and everyone else, and to the other girls cycling with me in the next few days, fingers crossed we all get what we're after next time!
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Hi Ellasmum, so sorry to hear that you also got a BFN,that reall y sux!

Im doing ok now that it has sunk in a bit as i was so convinced this was my month as i know your much more fertile after a lap/hyst but alas not me......

We always have next month dont we, a Feb baby would be nice!
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Old May 15th, 2009, 06:37 AM
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Morning Girls,

I had to share with somebody, you can forget about my last post maybe.... I received my Preseed and Preg/Ovulation Test kit Combo in the mail yesterday, getting organised for next cycle and thought what the hey i might as well take a test as AF hadn't arrived yet and didnt feel like she was coming, (i thought i was in for another loooonnngggg cycle).
Anyway as i was sitting there i thought to myself i'm sure thats a shadow, no couldn't be, no i think it is.... so i looked again and sure enough 1 strong pink line and one faint one getting darker as i sat......
The reason i thought i was neg was cos a doc did a BT on mon and saind my HCG was at 7.2, so still a negative result, but i read up and found that anything less than 5 was a def neg, so off for another BT today, will find out tonight for sure, cant wait, but dont want to get my hopes up like last time... I havent told DH yet because he was crushed when i lost the last one after only knowing i had a BFP for a few days.
Oh and my progesterone was 66.4, that result i only got yesterday, doc said was excellent.

Thanks for letting me share girls.
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Wow Ellasmum - well that sounds promising.

Sorry to hear the BFN Beckie. Hope it is your month next.

Tammara - hope you have some good news this month.

Well up to day 29 now - I had my blood test on Tues which was negative, but am not due until Sunday, so have to what until my AF arrives.

I had my doctors visit yesterday and I am now booked in for lap/hsyt Fri, 22 May - so thank goodness I don't have to wait long for that. Hopefully I will have some answers after that.

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Hi Ladies,

Doc just rang BT was good, HCG 91, I'm rapt, its much higher than what I had last time when I lost the baby.
I hope this one sticks, turned out to be the best birthday ever!

Thankyou so much for all your support and i'll be definately looking in to make sure your all travelling well and that your wishes are coming true!
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Wow Ella'smum - that is great news - congrats.

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Hey 31Becc....you say that you are booked in or a lap/hys and are hoping for some answers.Just curious as to why you havnt conceived yet? Dont mean to pry but just wondering if its due to ovulation problems,tubes,pcos etc.
I was diagnosed with unexplained secondary infertility by 2 well known ivf clinics...only to find out i DID have a reason for infertility.Diagnsed after a lap in aug 08.
Today is day 13 and i got my surge at lunchtime.Lucky DH and i did our bit this morning.Have some tenderness on my left side this month.Last month it was both sides.Good for me because my left tube is much better condition than my right.
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