Hey Milara,
Glad to hear that you are getting back on track.
We are still going through screeds of testing and things, but hope to be getting started with the actual process in June/July. We are also faced with the whole private cover thing.
In our search we found 2 companies that provide cover with only a 9 month waiting period for maternity and obstetric services - La Trobe, and Teacher's Federation Health. You have to have a relative in the Teacher's Federation health, or be a teacher to be able to access it, but La Trobe anyone can access, and it recognises Gay families/couples. We haven't actually joined one yet, but that is my job for the next couple of days - trying to make a decision!

Maybe not such a good idea given that I have been on Night Duty
lol!
If you are wanting private health for the actual clinic stuff you need to make sure you have a policy that covers IVF/ART - which means it may cost more - and I am not sure what the waiting periods on it might be.
We are going to Flinders IVF because it bulk bills a lot of it's stuff and the cost per cycle is about $1200 - $2000 (with donor sperm) depending on what needs to be done. Of course this might all change too if the medicare predictions come true - and IVF is removed from the safety net.
Anyway, glad to hear that all is going well. Fingers crossed for some fantastic results for the up coming months