http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/ en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:05:47 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/images/bellybelly2/misc/rss.jpg http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/ http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/117431-how-could-she-so-nasty.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:55:06 GMT I finally finished a beautiful photo frame of Emmanuel with his hand prints and foot prints and put one photo of him nicely dressed. My SIL came over this morning and when she saw his photo she says to me "aren't you embarassed that people will see his deformities". What the heck, how heartless. I replied by saying that Emmanuel is perfect to us and always will be. Emmanuel had six toes and six fingers which, if you didn't know about you can't tell in the prints but his cleft lip is clearly visible.
I'm just putting it down to her ignorance but her words did hurt. I think I'm just in a bit of shock that she would say something like this. His photo will definately remain in our lounge room as he will forever be part of our family.

Regards,
Dianne ]]> diannescruffy http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/117431-how-could-she-so-nasty.html http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/117244-am-i-jinxed-pregnancies.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 06:45:03 GMT Hi I'm Tunz & new to BB. My husband & I have been going thru ivf for the last 4 years. I finally got pregnant last year and at 7 weeks had a miscarriage. I was then pregnant in Feb' 09 with twins and at my 12 week scan discovered one of the twins had down syndrome and severe heart problems. After a selective termination of that twin, at 20 weeks I suddenly gave birth to my other twin, my still born son we named Thomas. I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and my scan on Tuesday showed the baby's brain had no brain tissue and so will need to have another termination. I can't help but thinking I am jinxed as everytime I am pregnant something goes wrong. I can never be excited about being pregnant & am just so scared. If anyone has any advice I would love to hear from you. ]]> Tunz http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/117244-am-i-jinxed-pregnancies.html http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/116386-my-angel.html Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:03:19 GMT On October 5th at 5:59pm I gave birth to the most beautiful baby girl, Amani Grace. I was 21 weeks 1 day. I had hoped, prayed for, and dreamed about this baby girl long before I found out I was pregnant. Instead of that being one of the happiest days of my life, it was one of the worst. Instead of happy tears, there was just tears of grief and mourning. My baby, who was supposed to stay in me for 19 more weeks was born. It is now 5 weeks later. My heart is still broken. Will I ever get over this? On October 5th at 5:59pm I gave birth to the most beautiful baby girl, Amani Grace. I was 21 weeks 1 day. I had hoped, prayed for, and dreamed about this baby girl long before I found out I was pregnant. Instead of that being one of the happiest days of my life, it was one of the worst. Instead of happy tears, there was just tears of grief and mourning. My baby, who was supposed to stay in me for 19 more weeks was born.

It is now 5 weeks later. My heart is still broken. Will I ever get over this? ]]> mamaamani http://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/support-debrief-after-stillbirth-lateloss-death-child/116386-my-angel.html