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October 8th, 2009, 08:24 AM
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Hello everyone.
Well our donor evaporated. **** gone. No contact. So Im booking in with FF in Hurstville.
I knew it was too good to be true.
Why do these people think all you want is to either give them free sex. Or that you only want home insemination.
Cause some of us like me only want to do this through a clinic.
I don't know what this man was thinking but I do know he isn't answering emails so therefore its a no go.
Im ok with it but for those who have tried and tried with advertising for a donor and have gotten the creepy and weird I feel sorry for them. People shouldn't play with emotions.
Redlady.
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October 8th, 2009, 08:37 AM
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Oh Redlady,
I'm so very sorry.
Having had this happen with a family member I can empathise with what you are feeling. At least my BIL gave a rational explanation as to why he couldn't do it - couldn't imagine waiting and having no response. 
I hope that you find someone that is truly ready to help.
Big hugs to you. 
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October 8th, 2009, 08:42 AM
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oh redlady, im so so so sorry for ur being inconvieninced!
people dont realise that they're playing with peoples dreams when they do this.
i hope u get everything you've ever dreamed of very very soon.
big hugs xxxx
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October 8th, 2009, 08:55 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you - it just sucks that people would even consider playing with people like that.
I hope you get another donor soon.
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October 8th, 2009, 09:22 AM
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 hunny i very sorry this has happend as well thats wrong making you feel like that .
i hope you find a wonderful donor soon xoxo |
October 14th, 2009, 11:58 AM
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Thank you ladies for your support. Im going to find out from another clinic how soon we could start with IUI. I found another clinic that has no waiting lists as they use overseas donor sperm.
Im not sure I could go down the road of advertising for donor sperm again. Its not for me.
Redlady
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Will be using donor sperm.
HSG done - 24/08/09
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October 14th, 2009, 01:20 PM
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It seems some people really have no idea the qffect their actions have on other people and hope that the new clinic works out for you
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October 19th, 2009, 05:22 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by redlady  Thank you ladies for your support. Im going to find out from another clinic how soon we could start with IUI. I found another clinic that has no waiting lists as they use overseas donor sperm.
Im not sure I could go down the road of advertising for donor sperm again. Its not for me.
Redlady | Hi redlady could u tell me where the clinic is? We have now found out that we need donor sperm and have no idea about it, was hoping not to go on waitlists!
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October 19th, 2009, 05:54 PM
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Im sorry this is happening! I hope you can find a new donor and things happen soon for you
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