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Old September 23rd, 2009, 07:58 PM
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I thought I would try and write down my birth story while it is still fresh. Here it is:

I started having pre-labour properly on Thursday 17 Sept. This was just slight period pain with every contraction and some back ache. Pre-labour continued until Sunday.

I was booked in for an elective c-section on Monday 21 September at 7am due to my baby being a footling breech. We got our kids ready on Sunday afternoon and went to stay the night with my parents so we didn't have to move the kids around too much on Monday morning.

We stayed up to 12am on Sunday night/Monday morning talking to my parents.

1am - DH and I finally feel asleep as we were so excited - we couldn't sleep

2ish - I had a pain that woke me up and wondered if it was possibly a contraction.

2.25am - woke up with a second pain. Decided to get out of bed and see how far apart they were because I didn't know what time I had the first pain. I was unsure of what to do at this point. My labours have always been long so I wasn't sure if I should try and sleep for my c-section in the morning or call birth suite and go in early.

I decided to give myself 10 mins. If I did not have another contraction within 10 mins I was going to bed.

2.34am - Another pain. Still not convinced that this was 'it', I decided to wait another 10 mins and see if it happened again.

2.43am - Another pain. I talked to DH about it because normally I would take panadol and see if the pain settled down, but I was fasting for my surgery and didn't want to take anything. DH suggested I have a shower and see if things settled down.

2.45am - 2.55am - Had a shower and 3 more pains. Got dressed.

2.55am - Called birth suite. They said it was recommended that I come in and get checked out, but not to rush because it was early days. Another pain.

3.00am - Woke up my parents and told them the baby wasn't going to wait. Had a few more VERY intense contractions while packing the last couple of things I needed and DH got dressed.

3.10am - Got in the car and drove to hospital. 2 long intense contractions on the way. At this point I was doing that thing that I do when I am in labour and started hating everybody in sight that was not currently experiencing labour.

3.20am - Arrived at the hospital. Had 4 contractions on the way in and during the walk up to birth suite.

3.30am - Arrived at birth suite. Was shown to a birth suite. Had 2 more contractions while the midwife got things organised. She asked to do a VE. I agreed. She did the VE, went very white and RAN out of the room.

3.35pm - All hell broke lose. About 6 people - 2 doctors and 4 midwives came RUNNING back into the room. DH and I overheard the midwife and doctor say that I was 9cm dilated - 9 CENTIMETRES!!! I have NEVER laboured that quickly. This is also where I lost complete concept of time.

I was told to lay very still as they were worried my waters were going to break and if they broke I would need a general anesthetic rather than just a spinal block. By this point I was shaking. I asked if I was in transition and doctor seemed to think I may have been in shock. I would agree. I was really scared.

I had a drug injected into my stomach to stop the contractions. I was having contractions on top of each other by this point and I must have been trying to push without realising and they were last up to 2 mins each. It was incredibly painful to try to breath through them without pushing.

Eventually the drugs settled down the contractions and gave me a bit more control over the urge to push, but they still hurt like hell!

After I had a canulla inserted, some bloods taken, was put in a gown and a few other things that I'm sure will come back to me over the coming days, I was pushed flat on my back down to theatre (as I was still not able to move).

DH had to wait outside while I was prepared for theatre - given an awful drink, had lines hooked up to me everywhere, was given a local and then a spinal block and laid flat on my back. The screen was put up and DH was allowed in. DH said he was waiting outside for about 45 mins. I was having contractions the whole time and had completely withdrawn to my own place. It was the only way I could cope.

After DH came in, they commenced the ceasarean. I think I laid there and cried. I was sooooo overwhelmed! 2 hours before I was still in bed and didn't know if I was in labour and here I was on an operating table in the middle of the night after 1 hour sleep and the scariest 1 and a half hours of my life.

I pulled myself together and tried to rest while they tugged away at my insides.

4.48am - My beautiful little girl was born weighing 4.11kg (9lb, 1oz), length - 53cm and HC - 37cm. She got a bit stuck so it took a fair bit of manipulating to get her out of my belly. She was firmly wedged up under my ribs.

I was shaking so much I decided I didn't feel comfortable holding her (the shaking was uncontrollable). DH held her and had the time of his life getting to know her.

5.20am - Op completed and I was moved into recovery. I shared my first breast feed with my beautiful little girl. The midwife was so supportive.

6am - I was moved down to the maternity ward and DD2 went off to be monitored up in special care (as a result of my GD). I had some good time in maternity with DH debriefing about everything that had happened. I was very spun out by the fact that 6am was when our alarm was meant to go off so we could head in for our elective c-section. It was only 3.5 hours from when I had woken up with my first pain.

The whole experience has been very surreal and I am still trying to get my head around it. All in all, I am really happy with the birth and I have a perfect healthy baby girl - I am thrilled. There were some things that happened in my recovery that I am not so happy about (I am really upset actually) and I am going to write about it sometime when I am up to it. For now, I just wanted to share my birth story.

If you made it this far - thanks for reading
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Old September 23rd, 2009, 08:04 PM
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Wow that would've been intense!

Congratulations on the safe arrival of Xanthe Grace (what a gorgeous name!!)
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Old September 23rd, 2009, 08:10 PM
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Well done thanks for sharing.

Congratulations and enjoy your baby moon

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Old September 23rd, 2009, 08:17 PM
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WOW thanks for sharing. Congrats on your (not so) little girls birth!!
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scary stuff!!! its great to see you and bub are happy and healthy.
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Wow what a rush!!!!!

Thank you for sharing - thats amazing!!! You did awesome.

I hope your recovery is going well
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What an awesome story!
well done and congratulations; such a gorgeous name too!

I have to say i had a little giggle at you yelling at all who are not in labour!! (Sounded just like something I would do, if not have done!!)
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Wow that was a very speedy birth!!

Congratulations on the safe arrival of Xanthe Grace !!
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congrats again. you did fantastic hun xox
xanthe is a beautiful name xox
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So well written TG... as I said in your BA I was reading with such anticipation to see if at some point she had turned.

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That sounds like it was very intense. You did so well.

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Congrats TG! So glad your beautiful girl is here safe and sound after an eventful birth.
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oh wow hun she really was in a rush to get here wasn't she. Congratulations again she is so beautiful what an amazing entrance into the world too.

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Wow she just wanted to meet you didnt she! hehe

Enjoy your little girl, she is gorgeous!

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Wow wow wow..... What an entrance!!! Congrats to you sweetie xxxxx
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Wow intense!!! glad everything worked out well
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WOW!! That is really full on!! Apparently I was 9cm when I got to hossy with Oskar too but didn't know until I asked one time during antenatal visit when pg with Elijah!! I was like you and I think a bit of denial and it all just happens!

CONGRATULATIONS on Xanthe's arrival to the world. She is absolutely gorgeous and I love her name.
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Wow, TG, how intense
I'm glad you are happy with your birth experience, though sorry to hear about the upsetting events that took place during your recovery.
I hope you are thoroughly enjoying your little girl - how wonderful to know that she was in such a hurry to meet you
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