Hi Cath,
Sorry for my VERY late reply, pretty busy christmas, My Brother has had HUNDREDS, and you think im kidding....No REally HUNDREDS of operations, I dont know if you remember Quentien (cant remember last name off hand) he had brittle bones was all over the news he currently interviews the famous peoples... Well my brothers ops started around the same time as his, they were both pretty popular people, My brother had about 50 operations to start releasing tendons, which is what they thought was the problem 25 years ago and reattaching them to different parts of the bones, It was pretty crude with no results at all, then after that he had his hips broken and realligned to fix what they thought was tight hips and missing ball joints BUT of course they were there and It wasnt tight just most of the muscle in his legs wasnt there or wasnt formed properly.
Well I guess I could keep writing a novel but many years ago they really didnt know and my mum and grandparents had dreams that he would walk and be normal as he had everything just in odd positions, appart from his hands which are missing all muscle and tendons my only way to get you to picture these is, Imagine chicken feet attached to your babies wrists....Not pretty. But there wasnt many cases and they prepared my mum for mental retardation, basically vegitablism. Naturally my mum knew better and he could hold conversations at 1 year old, hes smarter than us all!!!!
Has a HIGH paying job with telstra!!!! Better than me
LOL.... But he had tonnes of issues and he was a test case really they just operated and operated and nothing worked, He had the best equiptment and aids but really nothing worked all limbs are now totally fused straight he can sort of type and he is brilliant at getting around on the floor like a crab. I know you are not thinking I am very compassionate, But to me he is totally normal and hes been like this my whole life, I loved pushing him around, getting him stuff, we would do all types of games and really had a great childhood, He was in and out of our catholic hospital all my childhood so It became the norm to me, He has never had children but is wonderfull with them we are 2 of 4 and he is the eldest so he had practice, My mum used him like a pram when we went out and I just got so used to the staring people that now I dont even think about it...
But your little chloe sounds so minor...And medical advancement is just quadrupled since he was born your luck is so great that its not an issue, But this is rare and there is a group that you can join, I will reasource it off Mum that has stories and information on it that might be helpfull, I have recently spoken to Mum about your little girl and mum was just relieved she was so minor.
All the best Cath I hope you do get to read this and it doesnt just slip into the Belly belly dark hole
LOL!!!
Lindie