Hi girls,
thanks for your responses - not having heard much from people in a similar situation has been disheartening, so its good to hear we arent totally unique!
Red lady - thanks hon,

back to you. We have little viable sperm, though they have never really been able to give us any real indication of success. I am on a cycle now, and unless we get a BFP this time we are thinking donor is our only option. We will have to change clinic to do that, but are used to obstacles emerging regularly - the latest having to change insurer this week as ours has decided to no longer cover half the private hospitals in perth after a disagreement with ramsay health!
Do you know of any good resources on donor issues?
It sounds like you are making a sensible choice in a difficult situation - and hopefully you will have your BFP very soon!
Sophie Rose - thankyou for sharing your aunty's story. Wow - she must be an amazing woman to go through so much for so long - i wish i had half that persistance! All the best for the arrival of your little one soon!