Thanks babymama.
We arleady have the Elizabeth Pantley nap book and I have been to a sleep/settling clinic for
DS also! He is doing alot better with self settling now, but at night/bedtime he has his routine and then goes to sleep for one cycle. Then he wakes and sometimes I can get him back to sleep with a feed, but he will either wake again later or he just wont go back to sleep at all till its very late! So - yes, little time to self day and evening!!!
Any further advise greatly appreciated.