Okay, I've got a question about Mother's Day.
I've got a really dear friend who's been through a few failed IVF cycles. She doesn't really talk about it too much (I missed that stage of her life), and I don't think she's going back. She fosters a baby though (and may be able to adopt).
I'd love to be able to acknowledge her on Mother's Day, because she is a mother figure to this baby - but is that insensitive to her infertility? I'm leaning towards getting her a card or flowers, because of her wonderful care of this bub who may or may not one day be hers...but I don't want to aggravate any hurt.
What do you think?
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