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WOW Shari! I hope that the rant helped my dear, that is the exact reason i asked this thread to be started. Sometimes like everything you just need to vent! But because this is such a tough subject for so many people, we often deny ourselves the chance to guilt free rant!
Your BF sounds like she had many issues and BG is so right in what she says, you cant support her in something she is not even supporting herself with....
Depending on my mood babe i am with you on both sides...I can agree with just wanting to yell at her and tell her how silly she is in saying she wants a baby but not doing ANYTHING with her smoking and diet. On the other hand i can see why its just better that you remove yourself slowly.
I would go with the 2nd option most of the time, maybe try phoning someone supportive when you would normally have called her. If she ever askes why - tell her the truth.
YOUR pregnancy is AMAZING, SPECIAL and JOYFUL, you should love every minute of it! Turn off your phone on scan days so you can just be with your baby!
Please write in this thread whenever you need to and understand we know how you are feeling!