please don't think i was saying you can't let it out - having been on both sides of the fence i so get that! it's damn hard to be excited or frustrated about something in your own life and have to walk on eggshells and not share it. i guess at some point you need to work out whether you are going to get the support you need from those members of your family, or whether you need to get that from other mothers and stuff. unfortunately, some families (whether going through ltttc or not) just aren't the support you need (which i know sucks big time) and you find that support on communities like BB, through mothers groups etc... it's hard when it comes to that, and i know that ltttc can impact on relationships, but at the same time, it's not always from ltttc - some people just don't have the capacity to be supportive!
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