what a great thread...great points. I have a great family but it's others around me who hit me with the stupid insensitive comments.
I am still getting the "it will happen when you arent thinking about it, you just need to relax and put it out of your mind"...yeh right.
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Me 36, DH 37 and two poodles
Me: only one tube left (and it's 'dodgy'), Grave's Disease and Antiphospholipid syndrome
2008: March :  9 wks (one ectopic); IVF #1:BFN; Oct: IVF#2  8.5 wks
2009: Feb: natural surprise  10 wks; May: IVF #3: cancelled, no response
Now: managing Grave's Disease before we can resume TTC hopefully early 2010
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