Thankyou all for your replies and advice!!
I have decided I will definitley take
DS to see a psychologist - I was told I might not need a doctors referal for this so I'm making an appointment to see one that I found on the Australian Psychological Society site - thanks for that rayray!!!
I believe his biological father is an ODD sufferer as well, but unfortunatley he never got the help and is only now - at the age of 36 - getting his life on track. I won't let
DS to go down this same path!!!
I am also booked in to go to a Triple P seminar at the end of the month.
I will let you all know how it goes.
Thanks again.