Oh I just remembered this I put it out of my mind for self preservation because it upset me so much at the time. When I first started the IVF program my
DH was unable to come with me for an ET so I thought I would take my mum.
our nearest clinic is in Hobart 4hrs away from where I live, on arriving at the clinic my mum started talking to a little girl and then looked over at her parents and announced "i'm a grandmother you know'(not by me at this stage) and then to my total mortification she announced to a fully packed IVF waiting room that "i've told my daughter that she needs to take after me and fall like a rabbit at the drop of a hat!!!!!" I fell through the floor with embarassment and really never got over it needless to say my mum has been a lot less involved in the process since this episode as much as I love her she really never has and I don't think ever will understand just what a journey infertility is.