I can see your point, Gargy.
Problem is that this time of year is probably the hardest for family stresses, and also one of the hardest for dealing with infertility... but it also makes it one of the hardest times for the family to hear "you haven't been doing it right!".
Perhaps it might just be easier to opt out of all family gatherings this Christmas. Let my family believe we're spending it with
DH's family, and let
DH's family believe we are spending it with my family... and then, when things are a little less crazy and emotions aren't running so high, send them the information.
A similar topic came up on the fertility friend forums today, there's been some beautiful stuff posted there that I really do want to copy across at some stage.
Was it really that funny? I thought of it all as being very sarcastic and cynical, certainly not witty at all. Perhaps that might actually help it in being accepted by the family...
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We finally have our long awaited baby boy!
