i'm thinking i might be able to get around this in a very underhanded way - my bro/SIL are mostly great - as is one of my best friends - i might casually mention that the commandments exist, and then have THEM forward it to my parents.... at this stage, i'm not on speaking terms with my mother, and haven't been on "real" speaking terms to my father for most of my life, so for me to send this directly to them would be a victory for them cos they'd know they were getting to me - if i do it via others, and get it framed as "we stumbled across this on a website..." it might actually have an impact!
how sad is it that the part of our lives that we most need support is the one that is causing us the most conflict and stress??
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Me 29  DH 44 welcomed Emerald 29/05/09
it took 43 months to TTC#1, 3 clomid, 6 IUI, 1 stim - 1 fresh & 2 FETs  29/04/05, 03/12/05, 12/08/07, 13/05/08, 24/07/08  IUI #7 - Success!!!!  |